• A smiling man sitting at an outdoor café table holding a cup of coffee during evening

    She Was So Busy Looking at Me She Didn’t Notice I Was Blind

    Rejection rarely comes with an explanation. Usually, it comes with silence. After what seemed like a promising first date, I found myself asking all the questions we tend to ask after disappointment: Did I do something wrong? Was it because I’m blind? Could I have changed the outcome? In the end, I didn’t find the…


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    The Simple Question That Helps More Than You Realize

    Depression doesn’t always need someone to fix it. Sometimes it needs someone to ask, “Are you okay?” In this personal essay, I reflect on one simple question from a friend that reminded me I mattered, share what depression can feel like from the inside, and offer practical ideas for both people who are struggling and…


  • Man wedged between two large, moss-covered rocks looking upward while climbing

    Doing the Right Thing When It’s Hard

    What do you do when you know someone has been harmed, but speaking up feels complicated? Doing the right thing isn’t always clear. You may feel protective of someone, angry with them, disappointed in them, and afraid of the consequences all at the same time. In this essay, I explore why these decisions are so…